Proceedings of the 3rd International Conference on Education, Science, and Technology (ICEST 2019)

Rebuilding Trust; Psychological Change in Couples Who Has an Affair

Authors
Asniar Khumas, Nur Afni Indahari, Andi Tenriesa Rachman
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Asniar Khumas
Available Online 27 October 2020.
DOI
10.2991/assehr.k.201027.024How to use a DOI?
Keywords
Trust, spouse, infidelity
Abstract

This study aims to determine the psychological changes that can foster trust in victims of adultery. This study involved 5 research subjects, consisting of 2 male subjects and 3 female subjects. The age of the subjects ranged from 26 to 35 years. In this study, the criteria of the research subjects have been determined, including married, maximum marriage age of 5 years, a victim of infidelity but not divorced, and domiciled in the city of Makassar. The method used in this research is phenomenology with data collection techniques through observation and in-depth interview processes. The results showed the subject’s process of knowing the couple’s affair, the subject’s reaction to knowing the partner’s affair, re-trust their partner, and the subject’s process of re-trusting a partner who had an affair. The conclusion obtained from the results of this study is that the process of re-trust is not an easy thing to do by the victims. This is based on several aspects that emerged from the victim and the perpetrators of the affair. They are forgiving the perpetrators, the positive and consistent changes of the perpetrators of the affair include the existence of openness, the intention to cooperate, sharing, and mutual support between partners. This research is expected to add insight and research references regarding family psychology.

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Volume Title
Proceedings of the 3rd International Conference on Education, Science, and Technology (ICEST 2019)
Series
Advances in Social Science, Education and Humanities Research
Publication Date
27 October 2020
ISBN
978-94-6239-264-9
ISSN
2352-5398
DOI
10.2991/assehr.k.201027.024How to use a DOI?
Copyright
© 2020, the Authors. Published by Atlantis Press.
Open Access
This is an open access article distributed under the CC BY-NC license (http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-nc/4.0/).

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